Never eat chocolate on bed--laundry stories

I think my sheets got dirty in the first place coz i kept eating snack while sitting on my bed.BTw, did my laundry . Atleast the sheets.
I have prolly a good 6 mega loads of laundry still to do which i may not attempt anytime soon.I might do a selective cycle of just my shorts and paper thin tshirts coz i need them which i have completely exhausted altogether.

So yeah, laundry, It is funny how so many men spend a whole lifetime not knowing how to do laundry.
I think, everyone who wears clothes must as a rule know how to do laundry.
You cannot just be a slave master asking someone else to do your menial jobs.Next thing we know, You might end up being selfishly parasitic, you might ask the female members of your family to wipe your butt too.


Speaking of which, I think , the female members of such families need to stop enabling selfish parasitism amongst the male members of their family. The men need to learn how to make their own meal.After all, they were only born alone on this earth. Nature intended them to be able to take care of their food needs.

Speaking of all this, I think most women end up doing all these menial jobs at their homes because they are financially dependant on their male partners and somehow see this housekeeping job as their way of paying back.These women need to understand that I have no idea what they are trying to pay their husbands back for? For the food and clothing? For the shelter? I mean, If you went out and worked , not only would you get paid with which you can buy all the above and still also end up with a great self esteem. Then ofcourse when you come back home, you can do your laundry, He can do his laundry. Both of you can make one dish each for dinner and have a respectful relationship.
Come on, just go outside and get a job, you will get far more pay that the food and clothing and shelter you get for cooking and washing.
Coming back to laundry,Everyone must do their own laundry. It is only fair.

yeah, I also don't like people who make housekeepers do their laundry and clean their toilets. If you shit, you better know how to clean that shit filled toilet too. Sorry, just had to say it . No amount of money compensates for the indignity of having to clean a toilet that someone else uses . Yes of course, if two of you share a toilet, you can clean the toilet in turns. That would be fair. But asking a complete stranger to clean your toilet is just not fair.

i have tons of moolah too, but making someone else wash your clothes is inhuman and akin to slavery.
Seriously ! Be responsible, Dont make others do your menial jobs.

Jealousy is such an uncontrolled emotion , Isn't it?

Jealousy i ssuch an uncontrolled emotion , Isn't it?
I for most part don't really get gripped by jealousy coz i tend to admire someone else's achievements with a healthy spirit that gets me inspired to do better .Morever the things i cherish and respect are things worth respecting.I am not really into a certain kind of face and nose.I am more into intelligence, originality and goodwill.
But, there are those very rare times , when i have suddenly caught myself get a teenie weenie bit jealous too.Just a lil while ago, i saw a picture of a man whom i have never met in person.I kinda like him(i rarely end up liking people without meeting them in person and i rarely like people unless they have taken my third degree vindication !).So yeah, i saw a picture of him with his apparently new found love.This new found love of his, seems like a very normal person.Nothing spectacular and not someone that meets my Special Intelligent person standard.My heart sank for a bit.Was is jealousy ? Or was it disappoitment that this man that i like a bit more than usual, selects such an ordinary person to be with? I have no idea.Really .I mean, Maybe if he had been with someone special and spectacular and more intelligent and some whom i would find appealing myself, I perhaps would not have experienced that sinking feeling i felt in my heart(which i suppose was a jealousy of some kind?) hmmm...Never mind.

For most part, on an average, i don't get jealous because i am kinda proud of who i am .I would think that jealousy stems from insecurity and an insecurity where a person feels that they cannot do anything to correct and set right that factor that causes them to feel insecure.Hmmmm.
I have seenNot-so-good looking people get jealous of others who look good coz for most part, they look at it as something they cannot correct about themselves. and sometimes i have seen people taking this jealousy overboard and actually trying horrible methods like body modification to make themselves look better.
My question is, plastic surgery might modify your external looks, but will it ever get rid of the insecurity and the ensuing jealousy inside your head?
I BET ,NO !
The insecurity that is inherent will never go away till you do away with your own silly and stupid definitions of good and great and nice .
I would highly suggest that people dwell on each of us being unique rather than each of us meeting up to a set standard of what is great..why? well,, the person that decides that they are not ideal looking, does so out of some of self disapproval and some inner insecurity about their looks.They get plastic surgery done , they might even end up looking exactly like what they wanted to look like.Yet, the very fact, they need to undergo surgery to look that perfect, constanly stays in their mind and constantly makes them feel even bad that they were never "idea"l looking in the first place.Inside of their head, each time , after surgery, anyone compliments them on their looks, It is like a subconscious slap on their face , almost something that sounds like , "Hey , you are actually bad looking,Look, you needed surgery to look good, You were never really good looking in the first place!"
The solution?People need to respect themselves first, respect their own selves enough to not be shallow enough to respect beauty beyond even their self respect and respect for personality, to go get surgery.They need to feel proud and adequate about themselves without makeup, without all those extra add ons.That is true healing.